Wednesday, 1 July 2009

Hostage

Thank you everyone for your kind words of support. I have had the most awful 24 hours but you have kept me going.

I have set up a private post with the full story for anyone that wants to know and get a better idea of what help is actually needed.

I am in every respect being held hostage and my child used as ransom.

Either comment below with a registered account so I can get your email address from it or DM me on Twitter with your email and I will give you access to the post. Just so long as I can identify who you are so I know it's not Batman coming to find me!

Please keep re-tweeting and spreading the word. If you read the private post you will understand why. This could happen to anyone and we are supposed to be in the EU. Oh and it's mega urgent as have to lodge appeal in High Court by the end of next week!

The fight needs to go on - somehow!

31 comments:

  1. I'm totally rooting for you. I need to read this post to know how troublesome this is for you! I really hope you find some help!

    margarita.reczek@gmail.com

    I follow u on twitter too...

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  2. Hang In there. I can't even imagine. I follow you on twitter and would love access to the post.

    thejilliebean@me.com

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  3. I can't believe what you are going though. Any help that I can give is yours for the asking.

    I'd love access to the post so I can understand the full story and let us know what to do (need emails to politicians? anything we can put on our blogs to raise awareness (using you anonymously). Let us know.

    PS - how can we not help a yummy mammy who provides us with hot totty whist writing comments? I'm simultaneously horrified on your behalf but I do keep being distracted to go Mmmm... he is nice. Focus, Brit, Focus!

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  4. This sounds so awful for you. There must be someone out there who can help - will keep retweeting in the hope we can find someone. I would like access to the post if I may? My email is amylane(at)dalelane.co.uk

    I really hope this is sorted out for you.

    Amy x

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  5. Big hugs honey, hang in there.

    My email is sexchocolateandredlipstick@live.co.uk, would love to read the post - in a totally non-sadistic way, of course!

    xxxx

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  6. You poor thing - just to let you know I'm thinking of you

    bumble@sedgewick.org

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  7. i hve been bad wit my blog reading of late and am jst catching up!

    i cannot even begin to imagine your situation but i am rooting for you hun and altho things look bleak be strong.

    i would def like the back story please rambles25@gmail.com and maybe hopefully a solution can be found!

    **HUGS**

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  8. Ok, I'll check it out.

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  9. Oh you poor thing...I'd like to read it.
    Fingers toes arms and legs crossed for you xx

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  10. I'd like to read your post to understand your plight - can you give me access? I'm lorraine_regel@hotmail.com (Rookiemommy on Twitter)

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  11. I'd also like to read the post and help if I can, with any bits of info I might have.
    highgatejo@yahoo.co.uk

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  12. I would love to help if I can. Let me know

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  13. I would like to read the post please:

    krishopkins74@hotmail.com

    Hang in there...we are all rooting for you!

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  14. I'm following you on Twitter now, but my email is eviltwinswife@gmail.com. I hope there can be some positive resolution on your situation.

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  15. Following you on twitter, will do what I can to help

    beckycondron@hotmail.com

    xxxx

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  16. Really hope you get the help you need!

    Will keep re-tweeting for you

    thechildrensjewellerycompany@yahoo.co.uk

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  17. I can only assume you are in the same position that I am in. I am living in Chicago and cannot leave the country to move back to the UK with my children without my ex's consent. To do so would contravene the Hague Convention (I think). If I did so I would be arrested and charged with kidnapping and the boys would be returned to their father. I can contest legally and ask a judge to grant permission to leave but this would take up to 2 years, would involve huge legal fees (I have been quoted a conservative estimate of $300,000 but it could be more like half a million) and the boys would have to be regularly assessed by counsellors and psychiatrists etc for a judge to get the full picture. Not something that I have the money for or want to subject them to. I would love to read your full story - please email me the link to nicolacmp@yahoo.co.uk. I have also been thinking about setting up a foundation or group for mothers in similar positions, because it doesn't seem like there is anything out there to help us. It is horrifying. And I really, really feel for you. xx

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  18. Oh god Yummy - it all sounds like a horrible, horrible nightmare :( It's something I've always found really frightening and I'm not even a mum. Could you add me to the private blog?

    CalistroWriter@googlemail.com

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  19. p.s. I know someone who is a divorce barrister here in the UK. She might be able to answer some questions for free. Will ask what the appropriate questions are once I've read your private post. x

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  20. This an awful situation.
    I would like to read the full story if your are willing to share. You can email me at julieanne_gibney@yahoo.co.uk

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  21. "A loving heart is the truest wisdom"

    blog(at)parcanboy.co.uk

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  22. Hi Yummy, you've had me rolling round in pain with laughter in the past. But now the pain is in my heart and the tears are rolling down my face for you. If you wouldn't mind I would like to read the full story if you wouldn't mind sharing it with me. You can contact me at maureenhamill@gmail.com

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  23. I'm not really sure what you're going through, but I will pray for your strength to persevere. Be strong. There's got to be a bright spot at the end of your tunnel...

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  24. I would love to know the full background and I know you know me )))H(((

    sukie175@hotmail.com

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  25. I too would like to know the background if I may? Hang in there - one day things will be better.

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  26. How awful, how unfair!!! Don't let them get you down, please! You do have your daughter after all, and one day she will be so happy and proud of you to have gone through it for her.

    xx MM

    deborah (at) metropolitanmum.co.uk

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  28. Really feel for you and sending lots of love and luck your way xx

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  29. Yummy Mummy, I am so very sorry to hear about all that you are going through. But you are such a strong woman I am know that you and small child can come through this. I am rooting for you.

    Not sure if I can offer any help but maybe? greatkate (at) rocketmail.com

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  30. Bit late coming in on this, would like to see if I can offer any advice, tho would understand if you feel you don't know me well enough...

    paganoblog@gmail.com

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  31. Hi love
    I never did get the link to the private post? But then I was having a few email probs and have been away etc? let me have it and still in for anything I can do to help? xxx

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